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    Entries in Engagement Rings (1)

    Tuesday
    Mar052013

    The Ring is on the Finger- Totally Engaged in the Process

           

    Ben and Kat enjoying their moment. They totally enjoyed being engaged in the process!

    Once the ring is "on the finger," as my mother used to say, "what now?" First of all just savor the moment and your deepened connection. Hand- in- hand you are approaching a glorious threshold. Make way for the Country of Marriage!  

    But for those of you who want to dive right in, I discovered Martha Stewart check list. She suggests securing the officiant midway down her to do list. Now I'm not one to argue with Martha, but without the ceremony and the person to preside, you don't have a wedding. You may have your wedding coordinator, your venue, your guest list, your attendants and your date set, but if you cannot find an officiant for that date, you don't have a wedding. 

    This is even more pressing if you are planning a wedding on Cape Cod, during the summer, on a weekend! 

    I have known at least one couple who looked up from their cake tasting, to see my card hanging on the wall of the bakery.

    "OMG" they exclaimed, marzipan dripping, "We don't have anyone to marry us!"

    They called right from the bakery - Cottage Street Bakery.  I was actually available. We had a great laugh. And despite everything I've just said about planning ahead, I've done some last minute weddings that were fabulous! I feel there is a divine wedding planner who sends me the greatest, most loveable and fun- loving couples. 

    Here is what  Martha has to say on what to do when. Here the link for the complete to do.   

        http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/313017/wedding-101/@center/272419/youre-engaged                                                          

    Start with the timeline  Think about the type of wedding you want——formal or informal, 

    big or small——and the time of year you want it to take place.

    1. Set budget.
    2. Hire wedding coordinator, if desired.
    3. Compile guest list, and organize addresses.
    4. Finalize wedding date.
    5. Reserve ceremony and reception sites.
    6. Choose attendants.
    7. Order dress and accessories, including veil and shoes.
    8. Book officiant.
    9. Book caterer.
    10. Order wedding cake.
    11. Book florist.
    12. Book music for ceremony and reception.
    13. Book photographer and videographer.
    14. Plan and book a save-the-date cards, if using

    I am big on having time to get to know you as a couple. It is important that your wedding celebrant/ interfaith minister/ officiant  shares a common sense of ceremony and humor! So congratulations, every blessing and best wishes as you start your wedding planning.

     Enjoy being ENGAGED in the process!

    Kathleen -Your Wedding Officianado with a smile.