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    Entries in Wedding Ceremonies on Cape Cod (7)

    Thursday
    May012014

    Happy May Day 

     In the ancient Irish tradfition May Day or Beltaine was the day that couples came together to bind themselves to one another for a trial year or the returning couples decided to commit to a lifetime together. I read about this in the Peter Tremaine Mystery books.

    What stands out to me is the fact that this commitment was acknowledges publicly in a ceremony.  My thought is that hand fasting and the expression Tying the Knot had its origins in this Beltaine celebration.

     Sacred springs and honoring water , embracing Mother Earth and Mothers in general is a part of May Celebrations. As well as the time honored Maypole which my mother, Mary Lahey, claimed as her sports activity at  Packer Collegiate Institute "for cultured young ladies." So dance and sing and praise the Mother. Happy May Day !    

     

                                                          Engagement photo Central Park

     

     

    Saturday
    Jan182014

    The Processional: HERE COMES THE BRIDE!

                        

    Tuesday
    Sep242013

    This Cape Cod Wedding Officiant /Celebrant /Interfaith Minister....

     felt inspired by this quote today especially the dance like Zorba part!

     
     
     
     
    September 24, 2013

    Crack yourself open! What use is it to continue to hide behind your facades and roles? Why waste your energy playing games? Isn't it time to cry your tears; to shout your passion; to dance like Zorba; and to let your soul touch the Soul of the world?

                                        - William Martin, The Sage's Tao Te Ching

     

     

    A wedding ceremony can be like this ....full of happy tears, shouting passion, dancing like Zorba, as two souls touch the Soul of the World.

    At the first wedding I officiated in October of 2000 at the Dennis Inn, the Groom's Greek family all invited us into their circle for some dancing.  We did dance like Zorba!  I also remember the bride, Kathy, shaking a tail feather, with my husband and our ten yr.old son, to the rousing sounds of the classic, Love Shack. Now that was a moment not to be missed! 

    At a ceremony for Kathleen and Ben in 2010 (see Happy Anniversary a few blogs ago) we had a dancer on the tidal flats. He was related to the groom and right before the ceremony he sort of swirled out on to the sands and began to dance. He said later it was he, who warded off the rain. The lovely Julia Cumes caught it on camera. 

     After all my years as a nurse and my work as an Interfaith Chaplain, I pinch myself each morning and say," No,  its not a dream.. You really do get to preside over wedding ceremonies as a profession "- WOW. 

    So let's all crack ourselves open and see what emerges. I bet butterflies have to pinch themselves when, each morning, they are sunning their wings.

    So let's shout out our passions and perhaps some of you out there may find that in that shouting, comes the quiet realization that you have found the one you love, that you have already chosen the one you want to love above all the rest!  

     Happy Autumn everyone! Here are Erika and Andrew shouting out their passion, as they are pronounced husband and wife, last October at the Wequassett Inn on Cape Cod.

     

    Wednesday
    May292013

    Until there was you- Nikki and Adam say, "I do" at the Dennis Inn

    The rainy weather on Saturday brought the Garden wedding ceremony inside at the Dennis Inn. With the help pf the staff and the bride's innate sense of DIY creativity the outside ceremony transformed into a  magical indoor intimate ceremony in front of the hearth. The birch branches were lined with sparky lights that gave the entire room a romantic warmth.

    Nikki and Adam were full of both sincerity and a bit of mischief which made for a wonderful, relaxed yet

    real exchange of vows. When I described them as a "Real Cape Cod Couple" Nikki's sister the maid of

    honor chided in "With a touch of Taunton."

    Saturday
    May252013

    Marriages to Marriages from "In Rain" by Wendell Berry

    "let the rain come,

    the sun , and then the dark

    for I will rest

    in an easy bed tonight."